I havent been on the site for maybe three years not but I was really shocked by it. it is a sad state of affairs really. I placed a add in the personals. took a while putting a intelegent picture of myself here. when I looked at the rest of the adds I was shocked my the number of the NS adds here. No wonder the consertive press the likes of Brenda Power and her pack have such a field day.My god but one is not filled with pride as being a gay man in this country looking at the pack of shallow sex mad men who put adds on this site. lets rename the personals to the 'Fuck Club' at least it would be honest for all the scume who want to be on it. Relationships my back side what a joke. respect thats dead. the perve club much more like and far more nonest this site has sank a lot its really just a gutter site.

theres more aspects to the site then the classified - so i presume your anger is with the way people promote themselves and their needs on the classified rather than the actual main part of the site which is the message/chat side of it.

Jesus, get over it. Is it lonely up there on your high horse? Some people just like a bit of NSA to blow off some steam. Nothing wrong with that.

Why thank you for bringing this to our attention. We shall henceforth endeavour to delete all ads in the classifieds section soliciting sex and (just to be on the safe side) friendship, relationships and mutual interests.

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Welcome. Enjoy your time here. Get posting and you will one of the lads in no time ;p

Surely your not judging the whole for the sake of the few? NSA desires are an aspect of all sexualitys, so it may be a bit unfair to bind it so rigidly to being gay. Im gay but the actions of others are neither my responsibility nor reason to be judged by. Clearly though, gaire isnt just about the classifieds. Not sure what revaluation of needs brought you back, but fair play at trying to be the change you want in the world.

Maybe a bit of casual sex would mellow The Real Deal out a bit.

seems he only joined today so whats all the waffle about three years ago - and wheres the classified ad you were putting up. ?

I doubt this was any different three years ago when you were last on this website. Even if there were fewer of the "shallow sex mad" ones, they were probably on some other site instead. I dare say Ireland hasn't changed that much in three years.

I took it off again wasnt sure if people would read it too many words you know. even tried to explane who I. I whould have tired to just say what I was into

I dont think the site classifieds have changed much in 3 years. I agree with the OP to a small extent that it is very difficult to find people who want more than sex. That's not just this site though.

So why are you angry at this site alone and not Gaydar and Manhunt and people in niteclubs at weekend looking to score?

So lets get this straight (no pun intended) you "advertised" yourself and are angry because there are no responces? have you consider the fact that maybe, just maybe, you are just not what a person is looking for in a potential mate and the reason you got no hits is not the fault of the site but just because no one is intrested?

Close the pubs for one day and look what happens.