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Do You Test Drive Your Lovers? (Or Have You Ever)
 
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# 16 : Friday 14-8-2009 @ 16:02
 
 
Not everyone is like you, SN.
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# 17 : Friday 14-8-2009 @ 16:05
 
 
Someone said :
get off ye're high horses ye lot! are ye telling me NOT ONE of you has ever had casual sex? ya and lovelace is still a virgin!

We are not talking about casual sex though... we are talking about starting a relationship of a certain type.
Casual sex does not qualify as a "relationship" even if technically it relates 2 people for a short period of time.
We are not talking about fuck buddies either.

The idea is that the relationship could end up to remain in place, even if no feeling have grown out of the test drive.
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# 18 : Friday 14-8-2009 @ 16:06
 
 
This website is being taken over by frigid, conservative wankbags.
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# 19 : Friday 14-8-2009 @ 16:07
 
 
You can have all the casual sex you like and that's grand. However, as Blah pointed out, that is not test driving for relationships.

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# 20 : Friday 14-8-2009 @ 16:11
 
 
Someone said :
You can have all the casual sex you like and that's grand. However, as Blah pointed out, that is not test driving for relationships.

Simply because there is more than sex into a relationship.Test driving means testing more than sex.
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# 21 : Friday 14-8-2009 @ 16:11
 
 
Someone said :
get off ye're high horses ye lot! are ye telling me NOT ONE of you has ever had casual sex? ya and lovelace is still a virgin!

I haven't! I have had loads of sex!, but never casual sex. It just never appealed to me when opportunities presented or I was in a relationship at the time. All of my exes cant believe that I havent, because I am totally open about sex, and I open to being propositioned! I dont react with 'how dare you' or shock or I guess judgement. I think I just feel it is too indulgent, I am not curious enough to invest that much of myself in a casual manner.... I've never really analysed it.
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# 22 : Friday 14-8-2009 @ 16:13
 
 
Someone said :

Simply because there is more than sex into a relationship.Test driving means testing more than sex.

Yes. However, I am not only talking about sex. To embark on a relationship means that emotions are invested. to find out that your emotions were 'test driven' and tossed aside... that's not good.
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# 23 : Friday 14-8-2009 @ 16:15
 
 
Someone said :
get off ye're high horses ye lot! are ye telling me NOT ONE of you has ever had casual sex? ya and lovelace is still a virgin!

Are you in the right thread? The question was about relationships not casual sex.
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# 24 : Friday 14-8-2009 @ 16:17
 
 
Blah, are you talking about the initial stages of a relationship, where you are trying to establish if the person in question is a potential or possibility re partner. For example, there are a lot of things about the person you like, but maybe a lot of things you dont like, and you are trying to establish if there is any possibility of geting passed the dislikes....
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# 25 : Friday 14-8-2009 @ 16:18
 
 
But have you not had casual sex then a relationship developed from the casual sex.
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# 26 : Friday 14-8-2009 @ 16:22
 
 
Someone said :
Blah, are you talking about the initial stages of a relationship [...]?

That is not test driving. It is building a relationship and fine tuning it.
You would not do that for 2 relationships at the same time.
You can test drive 2 or more relationships at the same time though.

Someone said :
But have you not had casual sex then a relationship developed from the casual sex.

Which is different from test driving...
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# 27 : Friday 14-8-2009 @ 16:23
 
 
The poll doesnt apply to me. I never have, but I certainly wouldn't say I 'never will'. I am way to sexy to make an absolute like that!!!
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# 28 : Friday 14-8-2009 @ 16:25
 
 
Someone said :

That is not test driving. It is building a relationship and fine tuning it.
You would not do that for 2 relationships at the same time.
You can test drive 2 or more relationships at the same time though.

Which is different from test driving...

Could you give examples (personal experience is fine) of the difference betwen the two. Because I feel that is swaying towards 'open connections' which are definately casual.
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# 29 : Friday 14-8-2009 @ 16:26
 
 
Someone said :
The poll doesnt apply to me. I never have, but I certainly wouldn't say I 'never will'. I am way to sexy to make an absolute like that!!!

As a result of the test drive of this thread, I will now fine tune and edit the poll :-)
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# 30 : Friday 14-8-2009 @ 16:27
 
 
Someone said :

That is not test driving. It is building a relationship and fine tuning it.
You would not do that for 2 relationships at the same time.
You can test drive 2 or more relationships at the same time though.

Which is different from test driving...

Well then No I don't test drive 2 or 3 to see which I like best I am not that hot, I am lucky to test out the one model every now and again.
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