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Do You Test Drive Your Lovers? (Or Have You Ever)
 
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# 46 : Friday 14-8-2009 @ 16:56
 
 
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and intrepid...pull in the claws.



why? do you not have sex in relationships?

Of course you do. It's one of the most important ingredients in a relationship.

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# 47 : Friday 14-8-2009 @ 16:57
 
 
nothing like a thread where everyone is trying to decipher what the fuck the OP is trying to ask!
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# 48 : Friday 14-8-2009 @ 16:58
 
 
Someone said :
nothing like a thread where everyone is trying to decipher what the fuck the OP is trying to ask!

It simply means that it is a conceptual thread, where understanding a concept is as important as discussing it.
Surely a "do you shag around" thread would be easier to classify, and easier to contribute to... but it has been done before, many times...

I suppose that the concept of test driving is not better explained by the multiple possible techniques that can be deployed.

It is better understood by contrast with other concepts.

Some people "fall in love at the drop of a hat", and start building the next 5 years of the relationship from date 2.
They do not see dates or first shags as a way to test the relationship, but to confirm it.

Test drivers are not disillusioned by Disney-like romanticism.
They think that a relationship is a long term investment, and they have a somewhat “rational” way to approach a relationship.
It does not mean they are looking for an old sick rich man to marry.
It means that they weight various aspects of a relationship before investing themselves fully into it.

Note: I am not saying I am that type of person, but I admit I did drive test relationships in the past.
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# 49 : Friday 14-8-2009 @ 16:58
 
 
Oh my head is wrecked, can we agree on the deifnition of "test drive"? If we cant do that then this is all crap. Crap i tells ya
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# 50 : Friday 14-8-2009 @ 16:59
 
 
Someone said :
nothing like a thread where everyone is trying to decipher what the fuck the OP is trying to ask!

Its totally barking but I think he trying to be funny well it is funny.
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# 51 : Friday 14-8-2009 @ 16:59
 
 
Someone said :
nothing like a thread where everyone is trying to decipher what the fuck the OP is trying to ask!

Its totally barking but I think he trying to be funny well it is funny.
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# 52 : Friday 14-8-2009 @ 17:00
 
 
Someone said :
nothing like a thread where everyone is trying to decipher what the fuck the OP is trying to ask!

aye, nothing like it
it's reminiscent of all his other threads
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# 53 : Friday 14-8-2009 @ 17:00
 
 
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Its totally barking but I think he trying to be funny well it is funny.

did you laugh?
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# 54 : Friday 14-8-2009 @ 17:01
 
 
Someone said :

Polygamy I know this is biopic why not go for a foursome and have a test race.

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# 55 : Friday 14-8-2009 @ 17:03
 
 
Someone said :
Oh my head is wrecked, can we agree on the deifnition of "test drive"? If we cant do that then this is all crap. Crap i tells ya

It is done: I have defined it :-)
As it is a concept I introduce, I am the one who decides what it covers or not.

I think the trailer idea of CeeDee is good: if you do not recognize yourself in one of the people on that film, even partially... then you have not drive tested.
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# 56 : Friday 14-8-2009 @ 17:03
 
 
Someone said :
did you laugh?

Me never I grimace
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# 57 : Friday 14-8-2009 @ 17:08
 
 
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Of course you do. It's one of the most important ingredients in a relationship.

This thread made me think of something.
When people feel hurt from a relationship, it is usually because they feel they were "used".

Do people think that, looking back, they have fallen victim of someone test driving them?
Or worse, do you know realize that maybe someone felt you were test driving them. Especially if you last words before breaking up are: it is not you, it's me?
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# 58 : Friday 14-8-2009 @ 17:13
 
 
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it is not you, it's me?

I dont think anyone really actually says that or uses it as a defense
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# 59 : Friday 14-8-2009 @ 17:14
 
 
some would use that as a defense, but couch it in different words.
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# 60 : Friday 14-8-2009 @ 17:17
 
 
If I wasn't working tonight I would love to go on some test drives my engine is revving.
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