Someone said :
Honestly have been around message boards too long to be too bothered about what goes on behind closed doors but i know it's there, I'll just do my best to avoid it.
I have been on a couple of message boards over the years and every one of them has had issues with cliques, gossip, bitch fights and backbiting. I find a lot of this stuff is actually dragged in from the 'real' world. Issues outside the forum continued on it. For those who don't know the people in real life its quite confusing to know what is going on, if there is a right and wrong, so, avoidance is the best solution