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Going Out With A Transexual Must Be Difficult
 
# 1 : Sunday 17-1-2010 @ 00:38
 
 
Ok I'm looking for advice here, but in fairness all I can see is gender orientated desires, so would you? (most I think would say no, thats fine) If you did what would you expect? (eg a male to be so female, that they our a sissy boy) or ( a female who is so butch, that they control the relationship) I know that is a rough (very rough) generalisation but why is it so difficult to date a person who sees themselves as the opposite gender, regardless of how they our dressed. Is it the physical part of it, or the emotional part of it that people our attracted to. Cos some times I feel lost in this world.

Please let me know what you think, Thanks.

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# 2 : Sunday 17-1-2010 @ 00:51
 
 
if someone goes out with me they are going to have to recognise i am an effeminate sissy but one with plenty of other facets to my personality too!
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# 3 : Sunday 17-1-2010 @ 00:52
 
 
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# 4 : Sunday 17-1-2010 @ 00:59
 
 
Someone said :
if someone goes out with me they are going to have to recognise i am an effeminate sissy but one with plenty of other facets to my personality too!

And that is cool, hun, and I totally agree, I would be slightly different in how I see myself, but that isn't not wrong either, but I'm getting the feeling people our looking towards gender for their, highes which is fine, but now in fairness even though I'm attractive guy, how many people want to date me, I really would like people to be honest here, otherwise what I think is true. ( And ask me about that cos right now it is true)
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# 5 : Sunday 17-1-2010 @ 00:59
 
 
Someone said :
if someone goes out with me they are going to have to recognise i am an effeminate sissy but one with plenty of other facets to my personality too!

And that is cool, hun, and I totally agree, I would be slightly different in how I see myself, but that isn't not wrong either, but I'm getting the feeling people that people are looking towards gender for their, highes which is fine, but now in fairness even though I'm attractive guy, how many people want to date me, none, because I'm not a guy, I'm a girl inside my head. I would love to be seen as that. (in a nutshell) I really would like people to be honest here, otherwise what I think is true. ( And ask me about that cos right now it is true)
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# 6 : Sunday 17-1-2010 @ 01:01
 
 
I contest this, and propose that in EVERY relationship one person is more dominant then the other, the genders of those involved have little to do with it.
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# 7 : Sunday 17-1-2010 @ 01:04
 
 
Someone said :
I contest this, and propose that in EVERY relationship one person is more dominant then the other, the genders of those involved have little to do with it.

Thank you fraust, but would you go out with a TG girl based on that?
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# 8 : Sunday 17-1-2010 @ 01:07
 
 
that makes sense to me, although i would argue that dominance is not static
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# 9 : Sunday 17-1-2010 @ 01:10
 
 
Someone said :

Thank you fraust, but would you go out with a TG girl based on that?

Probably not to be honest, I would find it difficult, my own curiosity would make me think about the fact that they were born male physically, I probably couldn't get past that quickly enough to enter a relationship.
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# 10 : Sunday 17-1-2010 @ 01:21
 
 
Someone said :
that makes sense to me, although i would argue that dominance is not static

That is probably far enough kim. and I know where you our coming from, but I want somebody to come up to me and ask me to dance, and for me to say no, sometimes meaning no but wanting to say yes, I don't want to be here in this group of people, that I am with, the world places me in a place, which I don't agree with, yeah well done me, yippee, but it wouldn't change how I feel, this merry go round is for me, WHY WOULDN'T ANYONE DATE A TRANGENDERED PERSON? Our we that sick or unapproachable that no one finds us attractive??
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# 11 : Sunday 17-1-2010 @ 01:22
 
 
Good question Pixie,i'd base my judgement on the individual,love is irrational,if you find it for however fleeting a time in whatever form,then that is admirable and desirious,and a feast that makes one more human and real,but as regards to your question,then no,sadly I live in a conservative world,and such love would be covert,that will change when people effect change,and when education and enlightenment brings freedom of expression,in whatever form that takes.
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# 12 : Sunday 17-1-2010 @ 01:25
 
 
Someone said :
Good question Pixie,i'd base my judgement on the individual,love is irrational,if you find it for however fleeting a time in whatever form,then that is admirable and desirious,and a feast that makes one more human and real,but as regards to your question,then no,sadly I live in a conservative world,and such love would be covert,that will change when people effect change,and when education and enlightenment brings freedom of expression,in whatever form that takes.

Butters thank you. for your honesty That is all I ask.
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# 13 : Sunday 17-1-2010 @ 01:25
 
 
Someone said :
, WHY WOULDN'T ANYONE DATE A TRANGENDERED PERSON? Our we that sick or unapproachable that no one finds us attractive??

Why are you phrassing the question that way? Are you only looking for negative answers?

I'm sure there are thousands of transgendered peope happily dating right now.
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# 14 : Sunday 17-1-2010 @ 01:27
 
 
there is more tolerance in iran than there is in ireland!
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# 15 : Sunday 17-1-2010 @ 01:32
 
 
Ah Kim,don't be silly now,we know that's not true,chop off your willy or we will hang you is not really tolerant now is it?
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