Someone said :
I don't understand this submissive mindset which seems prevalent among urban people. As in, be careful where you go out and when you out.
You should be able to walk the highways and byways of your own country without attack or fear of attack or without feeling guilty that you shoulnt have been there because thats why you were attacked.
The attackers are ALWAYS the problem and the cause, not the victim.
The reality is that it is that way but that doesnt mean it should be accepted so readily.
Obviously in an ideal world, we'd all be able to walk whenever and wherever we want, but the reality isn't so. Maybe we 'urban folk' are more pragmatic and less naive.
Nobody is accepting the reality but until, the reality is changed, a wise person adapts.