Someone said :
It came to my attention today that unless you tell your partner pretty much straight away that something they were doing sexually was uncomfortable to you then you're not sexually empowered.
According to the person if someone is sitting on your face and you can't breath then you should stop and tell them. Bollox I say, half the fun is knowing that your partner is getting off and sex is uncomfortable at times, it is funny at times, it is painful at times, but it's worth it.
So do you agree that there is a deep rooted problem if you don't bring up every discomfort in the post coital conversation.
Interrupting sex with minor quibbles is dumb. Its not giving up your sexual empowerment, chances are the other person does the same for you at some stage.