So I'm pretty new to the whole casual sex thing. I found myself in a serious monogamous relationship pretty much as soon as I came out. That lasted 3 years and has recently ended, so I'm enjoying playing the field since then. I ALWAYS use condoms, as I'm pretty damn paranoid about STI's. But my question is, is it safe to allow a guy to cum in me even if he's using a condom? I mean I know there'll always be a small risk, but how small is it? Do you guys let people cum (with a condom on obviously!) or would you make them pull out?