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# 1 : Wednesday 12-5-2010 @ 22:41
 
 
So I'm pretty new to the whole casual sex thing. I found myself in a serious monogamous relationship pretty much as soon as I came out. That lasted 3 years and has recently ended, so I'm enjoying playing the field since then. I ALWAYS use condoms, as I'm pretty damn paranoid about STI's. But my question is, is it safe to allow a guy to cum in me even if he's using a condom? I mean I know there'll always be a small risk, but how small is it? Do you guys let people cum (with a condom on obviously!) or would you make them pull out?
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# 2 : Wednesday 12-5-2010 @ 22:45
 
 
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# 3 : Wednesday 12-5-2010 @ 22:45
 
 
Double bag it, to be sure, to be sure.
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# 4 : Wednesday 12-5-2010 @ 22:46
 
 
thanks for the helpful responses
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# 5 : Wednesday 12-5-2010 @ 22:47
 
 
It maybe safer but it's alot more fun when you don't
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# 6 : Wednesday 12-5-2010 @ 22:48
 
 
Someone said :
It maybe safer but it's alot more fun when you don't

I wouldn't be able to enjoy it at all without a condom. Far too paranoid
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# 7 : Wednesday 12-5-2010 @ 22:51
 
 
You know, sex is never gonna be 100% safe.

As long as you take all the neccessary precautions then you should be alright.

Wearing a condom is as safe as you're gonna get unless you abstain,
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# 8 : Wednesday 12-5-2010 @ 22:52
 
 
Its a role of a dice,
The safest thing to do is not have sex, but that's not an option
Even if you put a welly on it there still is a change of Blood to blood contact from cuts bleeding gums etc, but a very small one.

Wear a strong condom and you should be safer.. enjoy
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# 9 : Wednesday 12-5-2010 @ 22:53
 
 
@ sevenbells: No I'm all into safe sex, I meant it's alot more fun (with a condom) if you don't pull it out before you're about to cum. I'd not be a fan of unsafe sex.
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# 10 : Wednesday 12-5-2010 @ 22:56
 
 
Someone said :
@ sevenbells: No I'm all into safe sex, I meant it's alot more fun (with a condom) if you don't pull it out before you're about to cum. I'd not be a fan of unsafe sex.

Ah I got ya More fun, not to mention practically impossible to stop from doing anyway in the heat of the moment
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# 11 : Monday 23-8-2010 @ 19:52
 
 
Question - whats the quickest you can get a full sti screening result back? Im my experience it takes a couple of weeks but a friend of mine is freaking after he had not totally safe sex with someone and he won't calm down till he gets the results?
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# 12 : Monday 23-8-2010 @ 20:23
 
 
Someone said :
Question - whats the quickest you can get a full sti screening result back? Im my experience it takes a couple of weeks but a friend of mine is freaking after he had not totally safe sex with someone and he won't calm down till he gets the results?

tell him, if he won't calm down he'll have a heart attack, then the results will be moot anyway.
Hope they be clear.
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# 13 : Monday 23-8-2010 @ 21:30
 
 
Someone said :
Question - whats the quickest you can get a full sti screening result back? Im my experience it takes a couple of weeks but a friend of mine is freaking after he had not totally safe sex with someone and he won't calm down till he gets the results?

You can get it within about a week but it can take HIV upto 3 months to show up in blood so generally people are retested after 3 months
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# 14 : Tuesday 24-8-2010 @ 00:25
 
 
Someone said :
@ sevenbells: No I'm all into safe sex, I meant it's alot more fun (with a condom) if you don't pull it out before you're about to cum. I'd not be a fan of unsafe sex.

Sometimes it is fun though to pull out and shoot on their chest!
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# 15 : Wednesday 25-8-2010 @ 17:48
 
 
its pretty safe to for someone to cum inside you once they pull out immediatley afterwards to avoid any over spill or leakage
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