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# 1 : Saturday 14-8-2010 @ 10:09
 
 
I just came out to my first straight mate last night, was really drunk, he said to me lets go on the pull, told him I'm not into going on the pull, he said to me, what are you Gay or sth and I just said yeah I am. I am going out with a bloke for the last 3 years and he is the guy downstairs on the dance floor. Was bit weird, my mate asked me did I fancy him or which one of the lads did I fancy, would he tell people for me, I just said I don't fancy you or any of the guys, I fancy my bf, I am the same bloke no different, there is nothing wrong with me, I'm just in love with a man, who else knows, he said to me who would he tell, did one of the girls he fancies know, he said don't tell one of the other lads, he said he thought thats why his brother killed himself and gave me a hug, he is probs the worst person to come out to because he has got a huge mouth and tell everyone, but the weird thing is, I don't really care. One of my bf mates came up to smoking area and first thing he said to him was Im straight, I told him not to be say that.

I just thought he always tells me all his crap, so if he is so honest with me, so I may as well be honest with me. Was very nerve wrecking, I had a rake of drink on me, was shaking a bit, I didn't rehearse it, I didn't think about, I just thought, well I may as well, he always asking me if Im gay when he is drunk, so I told him the truth, I suppose I've made the first step with myself and mates.
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# 2 : Saturday 14-8-2010 @ 10:11
 
 
Excellent news, nonoutguy.
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# 3 : Saturday 14-8-2010 @ 10:13
 
 
Great man!
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# 4 : Saturday 14-8-2010 @ 10:52
 
 
Congrats on having a relationship for 3 years....Your partners suport will be a great benifit if/when ur ready to tell the rest of your mates.... The main thing is not to stress about it....and enjoy a deeper level of honnest friendship.
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# 5 : Saturday 14-8-2010 @ 11:06
 
 
Well certainly don't stress about it : the worst is over. It may be a bit embarrassing meeting your friend today, but it'll pass, and if your friendship is genuine, he'll stick with you. Funny thing is, as you get older and still haven't got girlfriend, or no big interest in them, you'll find that friends work out things for themselves anyway. Telling the first is the hardest, drunk or sober. It'll be a whole lot easier from now on.
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# 6 : Saturday 14-8-2010 @ 11:17
 
 
Congratulations ExNotOutGuy!
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# 7 : Saturday 14-8-2010 @ 11:31
 
 
Thanks yeah I figure there is no point stressing, its been a hard 3 years but also very life changing for me amazing change , maybe have to change user id again
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# 8 : Saturday 14-8-2010 @ 11:41
 
 
Someone said :
Thanks yeah I figure there is no point stressing, its been a hard 3 years but also very life changing for me amazing change , maybe have to change user id again

Can I suggest sortaoutguy?
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# 9 : Saturday 14-8-2010 @ 11:54
 
 
Good man!
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# 10 : Saturday 14-8-2010 @ 11:54
 
 
OK changed, maybe will get the courage built up to go one of the Gaire meets
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# 11 : Saturday 14-8-2010 @ 11:56
 
 
Someone said :
OK changed, maybe will get the courage built up to go one of the Gaire meets

Ah ya should, they're good craic. Fun and relaxed
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# 12 : Saturday 14-8-2010 @ 12:03
 
 
Someone said :
OK changed, maybe will get the courage built up to go one of the Gaire meets

our next one is our ten year anniversary one - not too long now

best wishes
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# 13 : Saturday 14-8-2010 @ 13:38
 
 
Someone said :

our next one is our ten year anniversary one - not too long now

best wishes

When is that actually? Some people are saying September, others October...it's gonna be such a large meet (we hope) - we'd wanna get crackin'.
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# 14 : Saturday 14-8-2010 @ 13:41
 
 
Oh and well done SortofOutGuy!
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# 15 : Saturday 14-8-2010 @ 14:04
 
 
That's great SortOfOutGuy - onwards and upwards now!
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