Someone said :
Why on earth do you want to know? All you have done is ask questions without any reason which leads me to believe its just idle curiosity bordering on.... well I don't know what... but it leaves me wanting to say ugh!!
Maybe that does not reflects so much on my
attitude towards disability.
If it were a question from a fetishist, I could understand the "ugh!!"
Like any fetish, it is dubious, and disgusting when it objectifies other people.
But in the context of this thread, I find it surprising.
Actually I will edit the OP to make clear that I also welcome testimonials from people with disability...