Someone said :
People can`t win-if they put serious relationship only in their profile then it comes across as needy.
It takes a lot of things to click to meet a partner and our means of meeting are curtailed,I don`t care what anyone says-they are curtailed compared to straight people.
Most people have a bit of fun with someone they find attractive,then something happens-or not.
Surely it is more pragmatic to allow for casual meets with the option there of being open to a date or more if it al goes wonderfully.
Isn`t it better to have planted the seed that it`s ok to call for another meet,and conversely that if there was no "click" then theres no hard feelings as it was meant to be "no strings".
It seems like pretty normal dating practice,gay or straight, to me.
Eurgh -not as well written as I would hope but you get the jist.