Someone said :
Do you go to them and how do you find them?
Saturday night I was in a straight bar for the night, the first thing I noticed was how rude the people in that bar were (yes it could easily have been a that bar thing) but when they wanted to get around you they would just push, and at one point I was kicked, where are in the gay venues I haunt people (in general, not all) seem friendlier and less aggressive when you are in their way.
I couldn't be arsed going to a str8 bar.
I don't enjoy feeling like a 2nd class citizen - where you have to think twice/three times before kissing or touching the man you are with.
But I guess it is up to us to start doing that in str8 bars until it becomes normalized.
Just like we should all start holding hands on the street until it becomes normalized.
I've actually done both and it feels good and hopefully gets the straight clientele used to it so that it is easier for the next 2 homos to do it.
I guess I've ended up contradicting myself now.