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# 1 : Monday 7-5-2012 @ 19:35
 
 
Do gay guys date - im finding it hard 2 find dates - most last just want NSA fun and thats it ? Do guys date other guys? I like going to the G and other establishments initially when I came out but now as I have no gay friends I find it a bit freakish going out on my own... any body else in this predictment?

Lee
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# 2 : Monday 7-5-2012 @ 19:50
 
 
I find it hard to get guys to date either. Even getting guys to be interested in meeting up a few times without sex is a big ask to some gay guys.
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# 3 : Monday 7-5-2012 @ 20:37
 
 
Leebim, you should come along to the next Gaire meet. It would be a good way for you to meet and maybe befriend more gay people. Keep active onthe message boards too, there are often smaller meets organised that you might enjoy.
I think you might have better luck here than in the classifieds, although you should keep as many options open. Clubs and groups are a good idea too.
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# 4 : Monday 7-5-2012 @ 20:40
 
 
What do you mean by "dating"?
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# 5 : Monday 7-5-2012 @ 20:46
 
 
Gay men are choosey. I've only ever had NSA sex too, even in much better days (though I've only ever tried the Internet and am too afraid to meet people because I can't handle rejection). I think sex is just an activity to many gay men rather than indicating anything else.
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# 6 : Monday 7-5-2012 @ 20:48
 
 
Someone said :
Do gay guys date - im finding it hard 2 find dates - most last just want NSA fun and thats it ? Do guys date other guys? I like going to the G and other establishments initially when I came out but now as I have no gay friends I find it a bit freakish going out on my own... any body else in this predictment?

Lee

I know what you mean man, used to be like that for meself years ago before I got to make other gay mates (as opposed to people you were sleeping with!)

As Bigbabyjebus said Gaire is great,once you get talkin to people on the boards and go to the meets its in a totally different context to approachin strangers in a club...ie there is more depth and an actual oppurtunity to take friends as opposed to lads just tryin to get in your jocks
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# 7 : Monday 7-5-2012 @ 22:30
 
 
potentially dealing with my first successful date offer with a guy who's been txting me(after we've met each other out), I'm in two minds on how to deal with it but I'm almost 99% sure if I ask the guy out it'll be my first yes!

I've already gotten a few nos, from around the place but I think my timing wasn't great for a lot of them and they've all been online. whereas this guy I met first in person and we 'hit it off'.

Currently looking at my mobile for minutes on end wondering the best moment to click send and what to click send on.
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# 8 : Monday 7-5-2012 @ 22:34
 
 
never mind he sent a second text. that's quiet telling.
so I replied and yep, got a date.

hey my 'good instincts' has kicked in!
useful milestone.
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# 9 : Monday 7-5-2012 @ 22:40
 
 
Someone said :
never mind he sent a second text. that's quiet telling.
so I replied and yep, got a date.

hey my 'good instincts' has kicked in!
useful milestone.

Enjoy it mate, hope it all goes well for you xxx
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# 10 : Monday 7-5-2012 @ 22:43
 
 
Someone said :
SOME Gay men are choosey. I've only ever had NSA sex too, even in much better days (though I've only ever tried the Internet and am too afraid to meet people because I can't handle rejection). I think sex is just an activity to SOME gay men rather than indicating anything else.

Corrected that for you
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# 11 : Monday 7-5-2012 @ 22:45
 
 
Someone said :

Corrected that for you

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# 12 : Monday 7-5-2012 @ 23:30
 
 
Thank you.. x
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# 13 : Monday 7-5-2012 @ 23:32
 
 
doing activties together - meals, cinema, drinks etc...
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# 14 : Monday 7-5-2012 @ 23:48
 
 
Someone said :

Corrected that for you

Corrected!??!
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# 15 : Monday 7-5-2012 @ 23:54
 
 
Someone said :
Corrected!??!

Yep - your generalisations don't reflect reality.
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