Without knowing more about what you've tried, I'd agree with what's been said above. You (probably) won't get to know people by going to a club. Like a straight club, if you get talking to someone, either they'll be looking for the shift or else just happy to chat but won't think about it much the next day. Try making friends, and the best way for that would be one of the more social sites like here or Queerid, or the many clubs and socs about. There's plenty of sports clubs and social groups. If you've any interests, let us know and someone should be able to dirrect you. You get to know people with similar interests, you're more likely to be friends and/or go out with them.