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Breaking Up With Someone By Txt Message
 
# 31 : Friday 11-5-2012 @ 17:05
 
 
I'd prefer a text too I think but I believe the decent thing would be face to face out of respect for the other person.
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# 32 : Friday 11-5-2012 @ 18:00
 
 
Ive had it done to me .Its a dirty rotten cowardly! thing to do, so is turning off your phone or ignoring calls .Give it to the person straight to there face or call them up and they will respect you .I think people learnt this crap from U.S tv like sex in the city
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# 33 : Friday 11-5-2012 @ 18:02
 
 
Someone said :
I think people learnt this crap from U.S tv like sex in the city

That was a sticky note.
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# 34 : Friday 11-5-2012 @ 18:05
 
 
It sounds like a cruel copout.
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# 35 : Friday 11-5-2012 @ 18:47
 
 
Someone said :

That was a sticky note.

A post-it! Get it right
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# 36 : Friday 11-5-2012 @ 19:13
 
 
I dont think its ever justified to do that on a person if they were good enough to have in your company and in your bed than they deserve the respect of a face to face honest break up.

Not how a man should behave at all IMHO
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# 37 : Friday 11-5-2012 @ 19:21
 
 
I was once broken up with while I was in hospital by a note passed through someone else

I don't see the huge issue with breaking up by text message, break ups are going to suck however it gets done, there is no good way. But me personally I wouldn't give a shit about the reasons someone wanted to break up with me, or want a long drawn out conversation about it, a text is better than watching someone cry while you're trying to tell them it's over and they are begging you and shit, and you take them back because of the tears but you don't really mean it and the circle of break up goes on and on.
Text... clean, crisp, to the point, preferably 140 characters or less.
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# 38 : Saturday 12-5-2012 @ 12:40
 
 
Someone said :
I was once broken up with while I was in hospital by a note passed through someone else

I don't see the huge issue with breaking up by text message, break ups are going to suck however it gets done, there is no good way. But me personally I wouldn't give a shit about the reasons someone wanted to break up with me, or want a long drawn out conversation about it, a text is better than watching someone cry while you're trying to tell them it's over and they are begging you and shit, and you take them back because of the tears but you don't really mean it and the circle of break up goes on and on.
Text... clean, crisp, to the point, preferably 140 characters or less.

That was what I was thinking too.
BUT....
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# 39 : Saturday 12-5-2012 @ 14:31
 
 
Someone said :

That was I was thinking too.
BUT....

What was the inspiration for the thread 19%? Are you considering breaking up with someone?
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# 40 : Sunday 13-5-2012 @ 09:25
 
 
Someone said :
I dont think its ever justified to do that on a person if they were good enough to have in your company and in your bed than they deserve the respect of a face to face honest break up.

Not how a man should behave at all IMHO

Not how a human being should behave
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# 41 : Sunday 13-5-2012 @ 13:28
 
 
Someone said :
I was once broken up with while I was in hospital by a note passed through someone else

I don't see the huge issue with breaking up by text message, break ups are going to suck however it gets done, there is no good way. But me personally I wouldn't give a shit about the reasons someone wanted to break up with me, or want a long drawn out conversation about it, a text is better than watching someone cry while you're trying to tell them it's over and they are begging you and shit, and you take them back because of the tears but you don't really mean it and the circle of break up goes on and on.
Text... clean, crisp, to the point, preferably 140 characters or less.

are you saying it's better for the texter or better for both?

what you seem to be saying is a txt message doesn't allow for two way communication so you can say what you like without having to sit through the repercussions of it in case you find that sort of thing uncomfortable.
Well I reckon that's a horrible reason to endorse a text breakup. Why not also have doctors text families when a love one dies or if an operation goes wrong? or have Universities text unsuccessful applicants?
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# 42 : Sunday 13-5-2012 @ 13:31
 
 
It's far better to break up with someone by registered letter.
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# 43 : Sunday 13-5-2012 @ 15:01
 
 
Someone said :

Not how a human being should behave

Unlike all the other animals in the world that generally rape then leave their loved ones

Greaanman, depending on the length of the relationship, then yes better for both as I think the back and forthness resolves nothing, if it's over it's over, no amount of "it's not you, it's me" bullshit will change that.
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# 44 : Sunday 13-5-2012 @ 15:25
 
 
U dont have male-end.
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# 45 : Sunday 13-5-2012 @ 16:22
 
 
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