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Attached Guys Using Grindr
 
# 16 : Wednesday 6-6-2012 @ 19:10
 
 
Someone said :
...I'm flattered, because it signifies a measure of acceptance by a higher status man.

WTF!!! Are your being serious?! How can someone who is CHEATING have a higher status in any context?!
I've been with 2 married men, 1 attached gay man (but I didn't know that until I accidentally told his bf), and 1 who said he 'used to be married'.

Congratulations! You've been with more guys than I have () and given all the worries you have about your appearance, I doff my imaginary cap to you. That said, no matter what people thought of me I would never allow myself to be used like that.
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# 17 : Wednesday 6-6-2012 @ 19:11
 
 
Someone said :
This topic of conversation came up with a friend the other day. He was telling me that his best mate split with his boyfriend of just over a year because they both found out the other was using Grindr. Drama central apparently.

Would you dump a guy if you discovered he was using Grindr to hook up with other guys ?
If you are in a relationship yourself, do you use Grindr to chat / make friends with other guys?

Discuss...

If I were going out with someone for a little over a year and I became aware that they had been using Grindr to sniff out available crotch I would be incredibly upset and angry. I won't say that the relationship would definitely end because I think frankly hard and fast rules like that are stupid and it really would depend on the situation on my partners reaction.

I am in a relationship and do not use Grindr etc for a multitude of reasons not least because of my commitment.
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# 18 : Wednesday 6-6-2012 @ 19:30
 
 
Someone said :
WTF!!! Are your being serious?! How can someone who is CHEATING have a higher status in any context?!

Because someone has validated them by being attached to them.
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# 19 : Wednesday 6-6-2012 @ 19:33
 
 
Someone said :
Because someone has validated them by being attached to them.

Sorry, but that's still crap.
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# 20 : Wednesday 6-6-2012 @ 19:39
 
 
Someone said :
Because someone has validated them by being attached to them.

Bullshit! And they have repaid that validation by cheating on the person being attached?!

Seriously!
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# 21 : Wednesday 6-6-2012 @ 19:44
 
 
A lot of gay men are okay with their partners getting off with other men anyway.
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# 22 : Wednesday 6-6-2012 @ 19:47
 
 
Someone said :
A lot of gay men are okay with their partners getting off with other men anyway.

And the VAST MAJORITY aren't as you'd see from reading this or the open relationship thread.
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# 23 : Wednesday 6-6-2012 @ 19:47
 
 
Someone said :
A lot of gay men are okay with their partners getting off with other men anyway.

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# 24 : Wednesday 6-6-2012 @ 19:54
 
 
Someone said :
A lot of gay men are okay with their partners getting off with other men anyway.

Are you even reading anything we are typing here?!
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# 25 : Wednesday 6-6-2012 @ 19:55
 
 
Yes I am.
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# 26 : Wednesday 6-6-2012 @ 19:56
 
 
Someone said :
Yes I am.

Is any of it going into your head?
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# 27 : Wednesday 6-6-2012 @ 20:03
 
 
Yes but everyone is different including in perspectives. I am entitled to my opinions too. Indeed that is the essence of a forum.
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# 28 : Wednesday 6-6-2012 @ 20:04
 
 
Falconer, how did you manage to make this thread about you without even mentioning Grindr?!
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# 29 : Wednesday 6-6-2012 @ 20:10
 
 
Someone said :
Falconer, how did you manage to make this thread about you without even mentioning Grindr?!

Well it's also about "attached guys".
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# 30 : Wednesday 6-6-2012 @ 20:23
 
 
Someone said :
A lot of gay men are okay with their partners getting off with other men anyway.

And what about married women.
I've been with 2 married men

What would you do if the wife turned up and wanted to talk to you?
Maybe you would be able to tell her that as a straight woman *insert insulting stereotype here*

I would not advise you to rely on your excuse, should you ever be confronted by a wife, girlfriend, boyfriend etc., as you are still likely to get a foot in the arse.
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