Someone said :
...I'm flattered, because it signifies a measure of acceptance by a higher status man.
WTF!!! Are your being serious?! How can someone who is CHEATING have a higher status in any context?!
I've been with 2 married men, 1 attached gay man (but I didn't know that until I accidentally told his bf), and 1 who said he 'used to be married'.
Congratulations! You've been with more guys than I have (
) and given all the worries you have about your appearance, I doff my imaginary cap to you. That said, no matter what people thought of me I would never allow myself to be used like that.