I am this but I have Asperger Syndrome, whicb is an autism-spectrum disorder. I am only now beginning to slowly gain more confidence. Today for example I went into a particular cafe which was difficult for me, though noone else was a customer at the time (it was half an hour from closing). I would still be a virgin were it not for the net, because of my fear of crowds, which I have still not overcome. I am admittedly an avid gamer, and have been since my uncle brought me and his son to a computer course run by a company he worked for in 1990. Then I got my first game console (Megadrive) when i was 12, followed by the 32X, Saturn, PS1, then just playing PC, followed by a return to the console world with an XBox360 and Wii this year. I now regret bitterly that I was not more outgoing as an adolescent and I will never be able to get those wasted years back.