I'm not though but even if I was it doesn't mean I can't have insecurities and fear rejection.

Time wasters?
Isn't that what time is for?

Are are are.

oh you're such a time waster!

No...time is for riding (apparently)

Ah bless. You'll soon grow out of that.

But before you do.... message me!

Have to say Ive never encountered time wasters on this site meself,but im sure its irritating aswell as mildly insulting, but sure you pays your money you takes your choice.reminds me of this news story from the weekend,have to laugh like

Man calls 911 after being stood up
http://www.torontosun.com/2013/01/25/man-calls-911-after-being-st etc ...

I wouldn't waste my time. And no doubt may have wasted others, but I endevour not to contact someone unless I actually am willing to meet, and If I'm not interested, to say so from the outset.
I apologise to those I may have untintentionaly time wasted. But I've learned from this.
I'm not bothered otherwise.

From reading the comments I gather that the Toronto Sun is a step down from the Daily Mail - there's no hope for you

Foiled again

How can you tell? Cause I sure as hell can't see his face clearly

Which was a response to Eamonn1980 saying "But you are cute."

Hmm I thought I hit quote and at the bottom of the 2nd page but apparently it was the first still.

My former close offline friend Colm used to call me a timewaster because I was scared to meet fellos. He said I was the one rejecting them by not meeting them. I know people say you should put up photos. What I found was that when I did this, many wanted to meet. But when they actually met me the answer was often "No". There is someone I met in a chatroom and is a fellow Gairean that sometimes asks me for meetups and I overcame my fear of rejection to meet him (we've known each other on and off since 2003 but when I gain weight I get worried about rejection again because I look different). So just because you like the photo doesn't mean you will like someone in person is what I mean, because people used to tell me I didn't look as they expected from photos - including some professional ones.

And as for the person I sometimes meet with. It bothers me that he insists I not talk to him. So it's like I'm just an object to him rather than someone he wants to get to know. He has a gf so maybe he can only be emotional with a woman. Or maybe the problem is that I'm not acceptable as something to have a relationship with because I'm unattractive. Or maybe it's a bi-male thing. I have said they are more butch (the ones I've met) than straights, and part of that may be not wanting to be luvvy-duvvy.

Not sure if that's true. Maybe it is but I'd just think it's unlikely that many straight men would go to the trouble of setting up an account an' all.

I think there are people out there that get off on the whole 'what will you do to me if we meet up thing', rather than actually doing it. And they are probably in relationships.