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# 1 : Saturday 14-6-2014 @ 23:23
 
 
Having always beleived in monogomy and after years of crap relationships (being cheated on etc) I decided last year to give celibacy a try. Surprisingly I have found that I can do without sex.
I have always been and still am a very sexual person but being celibate eliminates all the, 'hope I get a guy tonight' thoughts and wasting time on dating sites that usually lead to nothing. Don't get me wrong if I do consider a relationship again sex would be a very important component of it.
Has any one else chosen to go down the celibacy route for any spell of time or am I turning into a cynical old man??
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# 2 : Sunday 15-6-2014 @ 00:22
 
 
so like would you refuse sex with a hot guy if it were offered or are you just not actively looking? The latter i could understand...
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# 3 : Sunday 15-6-2014 @ 00:28
 
 
I have only spent the night with a man once and that was 2007. I have been with other men but not slept. When I'm very fat I avoid fellos out of shame. But when I get weight down I will try again. It's just that I find that hard and even then I haven't had much look with fellos even when thin and that made me give up for about 4 yrs (2003-7). But I also am not as interested in sex as most men (maybe due to Asperger Syndrome) However I would say when I want to be with a fello I avoid it because I'm scared of rejection. Also I have only ever tried online. I did go to one Gaire meet but I didn't try it on with anyone in part cos of f.o.r. and also as I felt it was a mostly straight pub and I didn't want to make straight people uncomfortable. I have not being in a gay pub before as I've heard they are very loud and I like peace and quiet. Sometimes I do get offers online but until I get w8 down I'm not up to it emotionally.
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# 4 : Sunday 15-6-2014 @ 04:05
 
 
you should put up something like this: "curvy sub bottom looking to take your load. Own my big fat ass. Can accom or travel totally discreet and DDF." it sounds ridiculous but I gauruntee if you put that up you'd get loads of action from guys who dont mind weight.
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# 5 : Sunday 15-6-2014 @ 09:28
 
 
Someone said :
you should put up something like this: "curvy sub bottom looking to take your load. Own my big fat ass. Can accom or travel totally discreet and DDF." it sounds ridiculous but I gauruntee if you put that up you'd get loads of action from guys who dont mind weight.

What does DDF mean Polo.?
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# 6 : Sunday 15-6-2014 @ 09:45
 
 
Someone said :

What does DDF mean Polo.?

I hadnt a clue either - drug and disease free
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# 7 : Sunday 15-6-2014 @ 09:57
 
 
Someone said :
so like would you refuse sex with a hot guy if it were offered or are you just not actively looking? The latter i could understand...

I have had offers over the last while from attractive guys - but I have known them to be players of sorts so I refused them. Poloblack when I was your age I would never have refused a hot guy but I think you come to a stage in your life where you want to come off the endless roundabout of one night stands and find something more meaningful.

Plus I am not actively looking
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# 8 : Sunday 15-6-2014 @ 10:02
 
 
Someone said :
When I'm very fat I avoid fellos out of shame. But when I get weight down I will try again.

You should not let this hold you back - You should never be ashamed of what you are
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# 9 : Sunday 15-6-2014 @ 10:04
 
 
fair enough. Well don't they always say you find someone when you're not looking so good luck
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# 10 : Sunday 15-6-2014 @ 10:45
 
 
Someone said :
fair enough. Well don't they always say you find someone when you're not looking so good luck

Probably "they" are those who didn't find someone when they were looking.
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# 11 : Sunday 15-6-2014 @ 22:00
 
 
Did noone tell you about the no celibacy rule at gaire meets Lot? Oops
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# 12 : Monday 16-6-2014 @ 20:38
 
 
Someone said :
Did noone tell you about the no celibacy rule at gaire meets Lot? Oops

If I decide to go to one I will make an exception
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# 13 : Monday 16-6-2014 @ 20:41
 
 
I'm sorry but it's doing my head in! It's "celibacy" not celebacy!!
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# 14 : Monday 16-6-2014 @ 20:58
 
 
Its great when the experts can weigh in with the correct terms now and again.
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# 15 : Monday 16-6-2014 @ 21:00
 
 
I'll have you know I'm a total man-whore!
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