Someone said :
so like would you refuse sex with a hot guy if it were offered or are you just not actively looking? The latter i could understand...
I have had offers over the last while from attractive guys - but I have known them to be players of sorts so I refused them. Poloblack when I was your age I would never have refused a hot guy but I think you come to a stage in your life where you want to come off the endless roundabout of one night stands and find something more meaningful.
Plus I am not actively looking