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# 16 : Saturday 14-10-2017 @ 11:26
 
 
A bit over the top, no? So the guy wants to buy suspenders, big effing deal! Hardly earth shattering news for the wife.
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# 17 : Saturday 14-10-2017 @ 11:28
 
 
You don't know me,or my circumstances and how life turned out for me in this regard.

Me, I learned that life can be a difficult challenge and it's best not to pass judgement as readily as you have on other folk.

Try being kind and understanding. There's enough anger, hate and aggression in the world without you adding to the bonfire.

John Healy said it best many decades ago - "Slowly we learn".
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# 18 : Friday 1-12-2017 @ 13:13
 
 
Did you end up going through with it ?

I would also like to give it a go - have loads of suspenders too.
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# 19 : Saturday 2-12-2017 @ 09:39
 
 
No, not yet Dave, though I still want to. The guy I was hoping to do this for has been out of action lately for health reasons but he would still be very keen for me to do it.
I'm still kind of very surprised how much the idea turns me on. He's a very dominant kind of man and I feel very submissive when we communicate and this would add greatly to his pleasure and I think to my sense of submission. Hope that makes sense!
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# 20 : Saturday 14-4-2018 @ 21:36
 
 
There is a much simpler solution.Do yourself a favour, face up to who you really are, embrace it and leave your wife. You say you are gay, that is very definite so why be cruel to your wife? Do the decent thing and end your marriage.Then give yourself some time and be you. Later in life you will be thankful you made the decision, there is nothing more beautiful and less stressful than being yourself. Best of luck and enjoy your real life dreams and wants.
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# 21 : Monday 16-4-2018 @ 10:47
 
 
My wife and I have a very close relationship and I think that it would be cruel to her to do as you suggest. Not to mention kids & wider family.
This is a part of me with a long history. I thought I could park it somehow but as i came to realize over time, a homosexual drive is a very powerful one, and one that needs release.
I know the risks, and take great care in my dealings with other males. Believe me, this is quite complex but I do my very best to deal with it.
Thanks for the reply, I sense, unlike some others here, that you are genuine in what you're saying.
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# 22 : Thursday 26-4-2018 @ 00:53
 
 
It's better to live a lie than face a truth then? See when you say " I think that it would be cruel to her to do as you suggest. Not to mention kids & wider family. " all you are really saying is "I want my cake and I want to eat it too". If you really gave a toss about your wife you wouldn't be putting her health at risk by sleeping with men on the side and then sleeping with her in between.

Feel free to bang on at me now and say "Boo Hoo you don't know my history" or "YOU JUST WOULDN'T UNDERSTAND" and you'd be totally right I don't know your history or understand but what I do know is as long as you are sleeping with men you and your wife's "Close relationship" isn't as close as you say or maybe it is just close from her point of view because she's not the one going off dressing in suspenders and banging random MEN she meets on the internet.

Out of curiosity if she was the one here looking for advice for a hook up and the tables were turned would you be as blasé about it? Because see what I think is you are like every guy who does the dirt be them gay or straight, you all want to be able to do it yourselves guilt free (hence you saying " I thought I could park it somehow but as i came to realize over time, a homosexual drive is a very powerful one, and one that needs release. I know the risks, and take great care in my dealings with other males. Believe me, this is quite complex but I do my very best to deal with it. "..that's an excuse) as long as the little woman is at home making the dinner and feeding the kids.

Grow up love and pick one or the other, stop ruining your wife's life and give her a chance to find a straight guy
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