Gaire members should just get their fingers out and help their fellow members who are sex-starved. It's missing from the general camaraderie one experiences on this site. We're too precious about sex.

Its not even the sex... I can go months without that.. its the lack of contact. Life can be tough enough but when you find all you are doing is going to work, coming home alone to an empty apartment, cooking dinner, watching tv.. bed... then the same thing the next day... life begins to lose purpose. Wish I had some mates to hang out with at the weekends.. cinema, coffee meets.. etc

You want gaire members to offer ourselves out for sex?

Ozren has given some good ideas above if you are looking for lgbt friends. I find the wet and wild group on meetup.com a really great group.

Hey Noah. Have you tried the groups that the others have mentioned?
Although it can be a bit daunting and sometimes a bit cliquey maybe?

Facebook seems to be one of the best dating sites that i've accidentally stumbled upon. Just put up a half decent quirky photo of yourself or a slightly younger you and they will come.