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Curious Or Bi? How Do I Tell?
 
# 16 : Wednesday 14-3-2018 @ 16:12
 
 
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# 17 : Monday 26-3-2018 @ 06:26
 
 
Someone said :
I have always wanted to be with a guy but always thought it was just curiosity as I am mostly interested in women. However I go through these phases of lusting after men and having almost zero interest in women. I am unsure whether this is curiosity or if I am actually bisexual. I have never acted on it because I was in a relationship but that has changed now and I'm a bit nervous to try.

Where is a good place to meet a guy for friendship and possibly more? I feel like a fish out of water here

I feel your pain as I've gone through the same confusion myself in the past but then I discovered I'm attracted more to personalities than genders. If I get on well with someone I don't care what sex they are. Physically I'm attracted to both so I would describe myself as bi. Best advice I can give is just go with the flow.
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# 18 : Monday 26-3-2018 @ 09:04
 
 
Hi,

About 15 years ago i started going to my local nudist beach and went to the Bi section to find like misdid men of all ages and talked with them also had a little fun. I consider my self to be Bi but have not had full sex with a guy to date just shared mutual play time with them. If there is a nude beach near you why not start from there its more open and less inhibiting also another idea could be men only Sauna Club, for me I would recommend the beach first.

Happy hunting!

Kenny.
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# 19 : Sunday 21-10-2018 @ 14:31
 
 
Someone said :
"Curiosity" is not a sexual orientation. You're either bi or gay, not "curious".

A gay bar would be a good place to start.

Today is the first time I have tried to do anything to explore if I am bi or not.

I do not agree with you on 'curiosity'. I am not gay and I do not know if I am bisexual. Does that make me curious?

I do not think so. I would like to try something with another bloke so that I know if I would like it or not and your suggestion of going to a gay bar is not helpful.
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# 20 : Sunday 21-10-2018 @ 16:11
 
 
If you want to try give it a go, I gave sleeping with a girl a go, once was enough.
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# 21 : Sunday 21-10-2018 @ 22:00
 
 
Someone said :

I do not think so. I would like to try something with another bloke so that I know if I would like it or not and your suggestion of going to a gay bar is not helpful.

A gay bar is a decent way to meet people. It can be a decent way to meet someone and get to know them/like them. Ive found that trying something with someone is more fun if you can talk to them in real life first.
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# 22 : Thursday 25-10-2018 @ 02:22
 
 
Someone said :
Hi,

About 15 years ago i started going to my local nudist beach and went to the Bi section to find like misdid men of all ages and talked with them also had a little fun. I consider my self to be Bi but have not had full sex with a guy to date just shared mutual play time with them. If there is a nude beach near you why not start from there its more open and less inhibiting also another idea could be men only Sauna Club, for me I would recommend the beach first.

Happy hunting!

Kenny.

There was a bi section at the beach? Was there a sign ?
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# 23 : Thursday 25-10-2018 @ 02:34
 
 
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# 24 : Thursday 25-10-2018 @ 22:22
 
 
Someone said :
That's why i asked Thomas to make Asexuality an option (much respect to thomas for obliging me) One week i'm gay.. Then i'm straight the following week & maybe possibly Bi the week after that.. Got so sick of my constantly shifting sexuality that i decided maybe no sexuality would be the best option..

Asexuality doesn't work like that, but if it makes you happy to identify as such, then that's totally fine and up to you.
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# 25 : Thursday 25-10-2018 @ 22:23
 
 
Someone said :
I have always wanted to be with a guy but always thought it was just curiosity as I am mostly interested in women. However I go through these phases of lusting after men and having almost zero interest in women. I am unsure whether this is curiosity or if I am actually bisexual. I have never acted on it because I was in a relationship but that has changed now and I'm a bit nervous to try.

Where is a good place to meet a guy for friendship and possibly more? I feel like a fish out of water here

Hopefully the advice you got from others will help. wishing you the best of luck.
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