Someone said :
Nope this was not to pick up.
I am sorry for using the word s..male.
I will admit I am attracted to transgender ladies,but I'm not using this to pick up,I'm just in amazement of how difficult it must be but should not.
I did not mean to offend anyone
no harm done, mistakes happen
It's not that difficult at all, the world is changing and Ireland (well most of it) is a lot more progressive than you'd think, there are a lot worse countries we could be transitioning in. Don't be to quick to feel sorry for us because I'd rather my situation to yours any day, you say you are attracted to trans women but on your profile say you would love to "meet up discreetly with transgenders" (not sure if that's the plural of Transgender, it just doesn't sound right when you say it out loud, it's probably Transgendi or something
) which implies you can't be open about your sexual preference so what happens if you meet someone who you really like? if one of those people you meet discreetly just ticks all your boxes? you'd have to give them up to be in a more "socially acceptable" relationship, now that
sounds difficult. Personally I couldn't live like that, at least for me the worst is over, I don't have to hide who I am or who I am attracted to. I could openly date a straight guy, a gay guy (not likely but I could), a lesbian, a male to female or a female to male and no one would even bat an eyelid, in some cases it would actually be what people assume of me.
All the "hard" stuff isn't really that hard when you look at it from the perspective that I have the freedom to make my own choices whereas your choices are probably dictated by a social construct of what is "normal".