Someone said :
Gaire really does seem.to be the go to site for crossdressing men married or in long-term relatiinships with women (who may or may not know about their husband's predilections) but as long as it's a bit of fun and consensual, well why not? Of course, if the wife or girlfriend doesn't know about the crossdressing, it can come as a bit of a shock. Les and Pam in Eastenders, anyone?
What bothers me more are (generally) married middle aged and older men who cheat on their wives with other men. Cheating on your partner behind their back in a supposedly monogamous relationship with whatever sex is just plain wrong. Come clean and come out and deal with it. Anything else is cowardly and utterly selfish.
Ok yes Im getting up on my moral high horse, but that sort of carry on is just not on. Period.
I'm with ya.. we need to do better as a species..