Someone said :
The hypocrisy on this thread is really pathetic. Cheating on your spouse by dressing up as a woman and sucking and f*cking other men is all sorts of immoral, sad and selfish.
To those who cheat on your wives - would you be happy if she routinely cheated on you with other men or other women?
I suspect not.
The problem is that many wives for one reason or another deny sex to their husbands as is their right. Celibacy in marriage is very common. Many marriages are loveless affairs. Many men growing up in less tolerant times hid being gay or bisexual and definitely crossdressing. Many still do.
So yes you're right, it would be hypocritical to have sex with other people if your marriage was sound with regular sex.
I might have been as judgemental as you once but after ten years of celibacy. I think all bets are off.
So off you go on your high horse.