You may want to somehow separate the fetish side of the spectrum with the existential one. Just like you have a different section for "sexual" and "love/health".
One that should not be seen by kids (the one that does not show on the unlogged page or home page), and one that is informative and could help someone who may otherwise be put-off by the explicit content.
That does not mean CD vs TG vs TV, by the way before someone jumps at my throat... I'll let the community decide what both categories should be called!
Maybe: trans-health and trans-sex. What do I know