Ahh, so it's a "could" and a "might" situation.
That's why the advice thread I put up in a small forum of peers I though I could trust NEEDED to be hijacked by somebody telling me I'm not a decent person.
My post "could" identify; not "will", but "could" identify the person, and they "might" not like me talking about their issues, not "will", but "might". I forgot some of you might have only ever watched internet thriller movies from the late 90's when you could realistically happen across stuff like this on a tiny forum, on a tiny website, in the middle of nowhere back when the online world consisted of yahoo messenger, geocities and your email account.
I have ASKED people to join Gaire and they refused and/or couldn't find it/never heard of it. So first off, I will cook and eat my own dick if the person I may or may not be alluding too in this thread ever reads it.
Do any of you know this person?
Do any of you know what they are or are not comfortable with reading online about someone which may or may not be themselves?
Didn't think so.
I'll make sure if I ever need similar advice, I'll stay away from Gaire, as this has highlighted precisely the reason why nothing of substance gets talked about here. i.e., users such as Pow Pow dishing out thoughtless, self-righteous trolling with no integrity if challenged about it, and then downplaying their utter lack of respect for, what is a very-tough-and-difficult-situation-that-I-am-still-in with
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