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How Do You Tell If A Woman Is Interested In You Or Is Just Been Nice?
 
# 1 : Saturday 15-9-2018 @ 15:09
 
 
I mean it seems obvious that the answer is you should just ask them to find out.but hypothetically you have a crush on your college lecturer and you don't want to come across like a total spas if she's str8. But at the same time it's extremely hard to focus in class b/c all you can think about is making out with her.
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# 2 : Saturday 15-9-2018 @ 15:30
 
 
welcome aboard Maryb. regarding your predicament your obvious choice may not always be the best choice as being direct may land you in hot water.Can I suggest you visit some of the gay venues here in Dublin eg Pantibar or the George or some of the gals only discos until your Gadar becomes more sensitive.Unfortunately we do not have as many lesbians on here as formerly and they are sadly missed.Best of luck in your persuits.
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# 3 : Saturday 15-9-2018 @ 15:41
 
 
Hi Mary, college lecturers aren't allowed to have relationships with students so I would strictly avoid anything of that sort.
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# 4 : Sunday 16-9-2018 @ 00:00
 
 
Who on earth ever said that college lecturers are not allowed to have relationships with their students?
While it might be unadvisable from the lecturer's point of view, there is no law against consenting adults consorting with each other.
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# 5 : Sunday 16-9-2018 @ 22:22
 
 
There's no law, but every reputable college either forbids it or strongly discourages it as a conflict of interest and having the potential to be an abuse of power. If the lecturer is responsible for supervising the student in any way, it's always forbidden.

So it's best to stay well away at least until you're not her student any more to avoid making things difficult for her. She is unlikely to be receptive, if only for the sake of her career.
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# 6 : Monday 17-9-2018 @ 03:49
 
 
Someone said :
There's no law, but every reputable college either forbids it or strongly discourages it as a conflict of interest and having the potential to be an abuse of power. If the lecturer is responsible for supervising the student in any way, it's always forbidden.

So it's best to stay well away at least until you're not her student any more to avoid making things difficult for her. She is unlikely to be receptive, if only for the sake of her career.

Yes, as a lecturer I can confirm this. It is considered unethical for a lecturer to have an intimate relationship with their student on the grounds that such a relationship can lead to a conflict of interest and almost all third level institutions forbid student-teacher relationships for this reason.
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