Someone said :
Cam rooms still seem to be really popular, do you use them, would you be upset if your boyfriend or girlfriend was having cam sex with people? Do you think it's cheating?
To clarify, can we assume that your scenario involves "finding out that they are using it", as opposed to "having discussed and maybe reluctantly accepted to allow it"?
(cheating vs unfaithfulness/non-exclusivity.
Basically virtual sex is as real as real sex.
What would be cheating in person is cheating online.
What would not be cheating in person is not more or less cheating online.
Cheating or unfaithfulness do not require carnal knowledge...