Someone said :
You being transgender may have burst the bubble of her ideal life. Its not your fault, it just sounds like she is unable to adapt.
It's important to highlight that it is not in any shape or form "her fault either".
That bubble of yours, if it exists, was not blown into a bursting state by her imagination, but by an uncountable number of minute acts from both parties and from society.
You cannot demand of people that they adapt in a few weeks, when it took the changed party decades to adapt to oneself, and some more time to share one's true self.
She cannot be looked down at for having taken what was "his word" in building a shared bubble.
She also deserves time and respect and support. She cannot turn back the clock and re-do her life as if nothing had happened.
It is not the truth she cannot cope with: it is the light it shades on the past,and the longer the shadow that light casts, the stronger the feeling and the hardest to shake off the perception
of it as a "deception".
People can handle the truth, but not the feeling of