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Fem.Man Seeking A Relationship With A Gay Man. Impossible!!!
 
# 1 : Thursday 10-1-2019 @ 21:44
 
 
Is it me or is it impossible to be attracive to another gay man who only likes effeminate gay men. Bi men seem to love my type but sorry bi guy's buthave yet to meet one of ye who who wants mire rhsn a one night thing.
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# 2 : Thursday 10-1-2019 @ 23:02
 
 
Someone said :
Is it me or is it impossible to be attracive to another gay man who only likes effeminate gay men. Bi men seem to love my type but sorry bi guy's buthave yet to meet one of ye who who wants mire rhsn a one night thing.

It's you.
If you want a relationship that lasts longer than a one night thing stop putting out on first dates
If you find it impossible to be attractive then stop making so much effort.
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# 3 : Friday 11-1-2019 @ 02:17
 
 
Naturally most gay guys are attracted to masculine guys but it's not exclusive maybe you're just looking in the wrong places if you keep at it you'll find what you're looking for,I think most people have to deal with the one night thing though regardless of who you are
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# 4 : Friday 11-1-2019 @ 07:47
 
 
Maybe it’s just difficult to meet the right people. Love is the hardest thing I’ve rver had to do in my life so far.
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# 5 : Tuesday 12-3-2019 @ 13:36
 
 
Someone said :
Naturally most gay guys are attracted to masculine guys but it's not exclusive maybe you're just looking in the wrong places if you keep at it you'll find what you're looking for,I think most people have to deal with the one night thing though regardless of who you are

Naturally?
People are attracted to the people they are attracted to.

Saying "most gay guys" are attracted to "masculine guys"... is like saying that most straight men are attracted to much younger women or that "most lesbians" are attracted to "feminine" women.
Not only is it not "exclusive"... it is simply not true! It all depends on:
- Where they are on the "spectrum" of masculinity/femininity (if such a spectrum exists, as you seem to assume it does)
- What their tastes are, and how influenced by external sources they are (including but not limited to advertisement, media representations, cultural representations, social pressure, pornography)
- How the cookie crumbles, on that first time they meet/interact/intercourse

I, for one never applied the internalized homophobic classification of "masculine vs feminine" guys... So I fail to see how one option is more "natural" than the other!
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# 6 : Tuesday 12-3-2019 @ 15:46
 
 
I do want more than the one night thing. X
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# 7 : Monday 18-3-2019 @ 11:20
 
 
According to your profile you also want a man into spanking and non casual. So maybe you are just too fussy ?
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# 8 : Wednesday 20-3-2019 @ 17:31
 
 
You're probably right @Blah but that's a very logical approach to it I'm just using my own experience to how I view it
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