Someone said :
I dunno, man... i think its easier for out minorities to discredit the benefits a closet can offer some folks (aside from closeted people knowingly marrying someone they are not in someway sexually attracted to which is a different argument, not one am I condoning as such).
I think regardless of it being 2020, homophobia and internal homophobia are still legit experiences that are hard to process that the closet adds some protection for... no one is obliged to come out, even in the most ideal of circumstances in society.
But closeted men dont need to choose to marry ...
They can remain single .
I think the issue most people have with gay men hiding in plain sight is these complications they bring to the lives of the people they have chosen to involve in their life.
If they are really bi
wouldn't they remain single so they could have real relationships with men and women.
It's marrying a beard and then chasing men that makes everybody go