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# 16 : Thursday 24-1-2019 @ 18:51
 
 
Someone said :

No I would not. I am guessing that if he was to do that, we would have had to be in a relationship for a long time. I would be happy to discuss the future of our relationship and in fact, I would be advising him to stay in the marriage if at all possible.

And would you encourage him to tell her the truth or support him leaving her in the dark?
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# 17 : Thursday 24-1-2019 @ 18:57
 
 
Someone said :
And would you encourage him to tell her the truth or support him leaving her in the dark?

Anything to do with that side of his life would be his choice.
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# 18 : Thursday 24-1-2019 @ 19:07
 
 
Someone said :

Anything to do with that side of his life would be his choice.

ah handy that.
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# 19 : Thursday 24-1-2019 @ 19:11
 
 
Someone said :
ah handy that.

In what way? I am guessing that he would not want me to be involved either way however if he did and we were in a relationship long enough, I would would be involved.
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# 20 : Thursday 24-1-2019 @ 19:56
 
 
Someone said :

In what way? I am guessing that he would not want me to be involved either way however if he did and we were in a relationship long enough, I would would be involved.

You actively want to get in a relationship where a party will get hurt, it’s handy for you that you ignore it.
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# 21 : Thursday 24-1-2019 @ 20:19
 
 
Someone said :
You actively want to get in a relationship where a party will get hurt, it’s handy for you that you ignore it.

If both people act with discretion, no one will be hurt. I know that you have tried in your replies to condemn this kind of relationship however has I did clearly point out in my original post, I was looking for advise from those that understand it and have been in it. Its perhaps easier to criticize.
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# 22 : Thursday 24-1-2019 @ 20:42
 
 
Someone said :

If both people act with discretion, no one will be hurt. I know that you have tried in your replies to condemn this kind of relationship however has I did clearly point out in my original post, I was looking for advise from those that understand it and have been in it. Its perhaps easier to criticize.

Its a public forum. People can reply. If you don’t like that, don’t post!
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# 23 : Thursday 24-1-2019 @ 20:49
 
 
Someone said :

If both people act with discretion, no one will be hurt. I know that you have tried in your replies to condemn this kind of relationship however has I did clearly point out in my original post, I was looking for advise from those that understand it and have been in it. Its perhaps easier to criticize.

Are you looking for someone, to be okay with it and make you feel better?
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# 24 : Thursday 24-1-2019 @ 20:51
 
 
Someone said :
Its a public forum. People can reply. If you don’t like that, don’t post!

Reply all you want babes, no bother. I was simply replying in the hope you might have something constructive to say however now I know its just a chance for you to be all Helen Lovejoy on it, I will leave it with you LOL
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# 25 : Thursday 24-1-2019 @ 22:25
 
 
Someone said :

Are you looking for someone, to be okay with it and make you feel better?

Well, are you?
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# 26 : Thursday 24-1-2019 @ 22:42
 
 
Someone said :

something constructive to say

Look for someone single rather than actively try to be a part of something that will probably hurt someone. Constructive methinks...
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# 27 : Friday 25-1-2019 @ 10:37
 
 
But if a single gay man wore a wedding ring, you’d also be no strings sex for them.
The cheatee gets cheated?
I should write mills & boon
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# 28 : Friday 25-1-2019 @ 12:11
 
 
Threads like these always piss me off.

Posters looking for advice on either how to cheat or be party to someone else cheating on their spouse.

The 2020s are almost upon us. Closets are for clothes.

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# 29 : Friday 25-1-2019 @ 16:39
 
 
I dunno, man... i think its easier for out minorities to discredit the benefits a closet can offer some folks (aside from closeted people knowingly marrying someone they are not in someway sexually attracted to which is a different argument, not one am I condoning as such).

I think regardless of it being 2020, homophobia and internal homophobia are still legit experiences that are hard to process that the closet adds some protection for... no one is obliged to come out, even in the most ideal of circumstances in society.

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# 30 : Friday 25-1-2019 @ 19:35
 
 
Someone said :
I dunno, man... i think its easier for out minorities to discredit the benefits a closet can offer some folks (aside from closeted people knowingly marrying someone they are not in someway sexually attracted to which is a different argument, not one am I condoning as such).

I think regardless of it being 2020, homophobia and internal homophobia are still legit experiences that are hard to process that the closet adds some protection for... no one is obliged to come out, even in the most ideal of circumstances in society.

But closeted men dont need to choose to marry ...
They can remain single .
I think the issue most people have with gay men hiding in plain sight is these complications they bring to the lives of the people they have chosen to involve in their life.
If they are really bi wouldn't they remain single so they could have real relationships with men and women.
It's marrying a beard and then chasing men that makes everybody go
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