Someone said :
If you met a guy and they told you they had never been with another man, would that put you off?
I've never been with a guy, have no idea where to start, and I can't help but think that since I've never been with a guy in any way, it may be off-putting to people when I tell them.
Would appreciate honest answers.
It's not like we are talking about a quicky, "anon", in the woods.
That would be a very reductive, pornographic, fetishist, vision of sex.
If two potential lovers are interested in building a mutually meaningful relationship, then both partners start where they start and work together to get where they are both comfortable getting to.
If one of the two people is not into it, or is no longer into it, then fair game, they are not part of that relationship.