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Do You Find Newbies Off-putting?
 
# 1 : Friday 1-2-2019 @ 18:46
 
 
If you met a guy and they told you they had never been with another man, would that put you off?

I've never been with a guy, have no idea where to start, and I can't help but think that since I've never been with a guy in any way, it may be off-putting to people when I tell them.

Would appreciate honest answers.
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# 2 : Friday 1-2-2019 @ 19:24
 
 
Personally I don’t meet newbies anymore because over the years I’ve been be them I’ve rarely had fun due to nerves or inability to preform or not sure if it’s for them so now I only meet with people who have a bit of experience
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# 3 : Friday 1-2-2019 @ 20:18
 
 
I thought that might be an issue
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# 4 : Friday 1-2-2019 @ 20:35
 
 
Someone said :
Personally I don’t meet newbies anymore because over the years I’ve been be them I’ve rarely had fun due to nerves or inability to preform or not sure if it’s for them so now I only meet with people who have a bit of experience

How did you gain your first experience, were you like the Newbie's you describe and how would one go about getting their first experience etc.?
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# 5 : Friday 1-2-2019 @ 22:08
 
 
Not in the least, why would it put anyone off.?
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# 6 : Saturday 2-2-2019 @ 00:59
 
 
If you read it again it will say I have been with a lot of newbies and now I’m at a stage where I would prefer more experience as I said it’s a personal choice
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# 7 : Saturday 2-2-2019 @ 02:26
 
 
I find an awful lot of things off-putting with fellas but that's not something I've ever really thought about I don't think that would bother me too much
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# 8 : Saturday 2-2-2019 @ 11:07
 
 
Wouldn't bother me at all, in fact I'd be delighted to help.

Probably best to exchange emails or talk on the phone first, get to know each other a little, then perhaps meet for a coffee and see how it goes, if there's a spark on both sides and run with it or not from there.

We all had to start somewhere. And don't be put off if it doesn't work out at first. It's a learning experience. I know I made a dog's dinner of it when I started but I soon got to know the ropes.

It's one life, go for it.
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# 9 : Saturday 2-2-2019 @ 11:40
 
 
Well it's good to know most don't mind. Thanks for the honest replies.
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# 10 : Saturday 2-2-2019 @ 11:57
 
 
Personally, noobs don’t bother me.
In fact I would find their inexperiem relaxing.
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# 11 : Saturday 2-2-2019 @ 12:10
 
 
Good to know there are people like that around
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# 12 : Saturday 2-2-2019 @ 13:53
 
 
I'm in the same boat as you my friend so I know how it feels
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# 13 : Saturday 9-2-2019 @ 21:43
 
 
Someone said :
If you met a guy and they told you they had never been with another man, would that put you off?

I've never been with a guy, have no idea where to start, and I can't help but think that since I've never been with a guy in any way, it may be off-putting to people when I tell them.

Would appreciate honest answers.

It's not like we are talking about a quicky, "anon", in the woods.
That would be a very reductive, pornographic, fetishist, vision of sex.

If two potential lovers are interested in building a mutually meaningful relationship, then both partners start where they start and work together to get where they are both comfortable getting to.

If one of the two people is not into it, or is no longer into it, then fair game, they are not part of that relationship.
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# 14 : Sunday 10-2-2019 @ 00:27
 
 
Maybe "I'm a virgin ...ride me " isn't the best chat up line ...
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# 15 : Tuesday 12-2-2019 @ 10:51
 
 

Maybe "I'm a virgin ...ride me " isn't the best chat up line ...

Gosh, I think it's a great chat up line! Wish I had thought of it when I was starting out........
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