Someone said :
Take him, with a pinch of salt and a Tequila Greenmapp.
I can take the eccentric, the crazy and the mentally handicapped with a pinch of salt.
Sfiderman is actively and clear-mindidly being poisonous and evil directly to me.
"Date got drunk": it was your fault
"I had nothing to do with it": You were definitely waiting to see what would happen rather than preventing problems
"I prefer dating people who can control themselves": you're only complaining because he was too drunk to have sex.
Like that is TOXIC shit from an evil mind. It goes beyond "conversation" it is trolling, pure and simple. Sfiderman has no intention of taking the topic seriously, or taking anything I post at even NEAR it's face value. He is simple calculating the worst possible motivation for my post then multiplying that by a ream of fucked up assumptions about how I might treat someone on a date.
He has no consideration for what he is saying, it is simply a game he's playing to frame anything I post in the worst light possible.
I PM'd him about it, see if I insulted him or something.
It is an attempt to pointlessly and malicious bully, and I pity him for whatever he has experienced in his life that makes him think that's an OK way to behave with someone.