Someone said :
He could be pretending to be gay to get a visa?
Yeah, there is a huge problem with straight men pretending to be gay to get a visa. Someone should tell them they could just marry a local woman.
go to gay counseling in outhouse?
Some people arnt that interested in sex, why should he need counselling?
I get it some people are happy having no sex, but if you want a full on sexual relationship maybe you should just be friends with this guy?
I think that is the best solution. People are so insistent on making ever connection turn into something long lasting and permanent, when most of them should be left as flings.
If sex is a big deal to you then find someone you are more compatible with. This relationship is not likely to get past this issue. Even if you talk about it and try to move on, you will continue to have the same problem every time you get horny.