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Advice For First Time Bottom.
 
# 1 : Friday 14-2-2020 @ 19:02
 
 
Long story short. I am chatting with an experienced guy about a hookup for the past 4 weeks. He sent a face pic, is very easy on the eyes, 62 yrs old, great body. He said he's a total top, and is only interested in sex.
I have never bottomed before. I am open to the idea, but nervous still the same.
What preparation or precaution should I take? It feels like I'm going from zero to ten in no time. We are meeting up Sunday morning for a stroll on the beach, if there's chemistry, there is already, he's a checky little so an so it's into the dunes or back to his.
Help, nervous.
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# 2 : Friday 14-2-2020 @ 19:13
 
 
Insist on Cowboy till your comfortable switching to Doggy..
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# 3 : Saturday 15-2-2020 @ 05:50
 
 
Yes, cowboy is good position to start.
Don't go to dunes for first time, better to go to his/yours/hotel, much easier to relax
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# 4 : Saturday 15-2-2020 @ 09:29
 
 
I don't think the sand will act like a lubricant ??
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# 5 : Saturday 15-2-2020 @ 12:16
 
 
Get a toilet plunger, on screwfix and prepare yourself beforehand.
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# 6 : Saturday 15-2-2020 @ 13:06
 
 
I always make sure I have used a butt plug if I can to get ready before I go to a meet and lube is a big help
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# 7 : Saturday 15-2-2020 @ 20:00
 
 
Lube, rubbers and somewhere you are okay with
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# 8 : Sunday 16-2-2020 @ 18:25
 
 
First time bottom? For some reason my senses are screaming not with this guy and not on a beach.
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# 9 : Sunday 16-2-2020 @ 18:38
 
 
Someone said :
First time bottom? For some reason my senses are screaming not with this guy and not on a beach.

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# 10 : Sunday 16-2-2020 @ 20:23
 
 
You could practice with a dildo or butt plug. However I agree with Ballaghbi - if he is a total top and has never bottomed himself then I would be very wary of him. Unless he has bottomed himself he will not know what it is like for you and may not be inclined to take it as easy as he should with a first timer. First time is likely to be best with a versatile guy!
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# 11 : Monday 17-2-2020 @ 00:16
 
 
Dildo or butt plug and plenty of lube before you do anything else. Make sure you have plenty of lube and condoms on the day and consider wearing a butt plug on the way to you meet.
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# 12 : Monday 17-2-2020 @ 09:54
 
 
don't like the sound of this at all... the dunes indeed. sounds like a dirty aul man.
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# 13 : Tuesday 18-2-2020 @ 09:01
 
 
Make sure someone knows where you are. Plenty of lube, rubbers and dildo practice. But stay safe above all else. I hope it works out for you and he has sparkly eyes.
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# 14 : Wednesday 19-2-2020 @ 07:50
 
 
you need to be somewhere comfortable and where you can feel at ease. absolutely on the cowboy. you can control taking it better. and ouotdoors?! how can you relax knowing someone can come across you at any time ( pun intended)
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# 15 : Thursday 20-2-2020 @ 13:18
 
 
I wouldn't advise to be meeting this guy alone on a bech...a walk yes mabey nice but to be fair you must also protect yourelf...let people know where you are and insist on a hotel or even your place even and if he says his plae you let one of your friens know where his place is....Just be careful and have fun chickie ..
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