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# 1 : Saturday 9-5-2020 @ 16:03
 
 
This is a half sexual topic half a thinking topic.

I've been writing abstract fantasy pornography for quite a while, and I must say the communities surroundings that branch of expression and literature, has opened my eyes a lot to things in the human condition I never would believe if you told me, rather then witnessing them myself.

First off, fetishes seems to work a lot like phobias do, and in another way, like humour does.
Some people just have things that utterly "crack them up" there are funny things and there are thing that, one of 5, or 50, or 500 people will find especially hilariously funny.

Likewise phobias. There are commonly known about phobias i.e., claustrophobia, arachnophobia, trypophobia, that are shared in general by most humans, with varying degree of severity.

Fetishes are similar. There are certain things that make people irrationally horny; being stepped on with bare feet, wearing certain textiles, roleplaying as character's of certain relationships (i.e., policeman & citizen, father & son, Boss & office worker)

If you think of 'well made' art or drama or theater, these three "human reactions" subvert the expectation of what makes a piece of work (film, play, story etc) "good".
Comedy excuses disbelief in the integrity of a perceived situation with the pass "but it's funny though" likewise horror with "but it's scary through" and equally Pornography with "but it makes me horny".


Bonus point,
Do you know your fetishes?
If you met a new partner and you were simply asked "so, what are your fetishes? maybe we have some in common" would you be able to list them as quickly as you could your strongest phobias?
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# 2 : Thursday 21-5-2020 @ 09:58
 
 
Someone said :

Bonus point,
Do you know your fetishes?
If you met a new partner and you were simply asked "so, what are your fetishes? maybe we have some in common" would you be able to list them as quickly as you could your strongest phobias?

You first
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# 3 : Thursday 21-5-2020 @ 17:52
 
 
Someone said :
This is a half sexual topic half a thinking topic.

I've been writing abstract fantasy pornography for quite a while, and I must say the communities surroundings that branch of expression and literature, has opened my eyes a lot to things in the human condition I never would believe if you told me, rather then witnessing them myself.

First off, fetishes seems to work a lot like phobias do, and in another way, like humour does.
Some people just have things that utterly "crack them up" there are funny things and there are thing that, one of 5, or 50, or 500 people will find especially hilariously funny.

Likewise phobias. There are commonly known about phobias i.e., claustrophobia, arachnophobia, trypophobia, that are shared in general by most humans, with varying degree of severity.

Fetishes are similar. There are certain things that make people irrationally horny; being stepped on with bare feet, wearing certain textiles, roleplaying as character's of certain relationships (i.e., policeman & citizen, father & son, Boss & office worker)

If you think of 'well made' art or drama or theater, these three "human reactions" subvert the expectation of what makes a piece of work (film, play, story etc) "good".
Comedy excuses disbelief in the integrity of a perceived situation with the pass "but it's funny though" likewise horror with "but it's scary through" and equally Pornography with "but it makes me horny".


Bonus point,
Do you know your fetishes?
If you met a new partner and you were simply asked "so, what are your fetishes? maybe we have some in common" would you be able to list them as quickly as you could your strongest phobias?

sorry but I lost interest after the first line.
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# 4 : Friday 22-5-2020 @ 13:59
 
 
A lot of people think that their fetish is something totally weird and unique to them and something to be ashamed of - if you ever get one of those emails threatening to upload footage of you jerking off to porn they usually include a line like "your tastes are really weird by the way" which plays into that fear.

I would be able to list my fetishes easily enough and nope, I'm not going to do so here - not because I'm ashamed, fetishes are something which I *think* are a common trait of all human sexuality (so, additional question: would anyone claim to have NO fetishes at all?) - but because it's just not appropriate here.

I would find it easier to talk about them with someone I just wanted to have sex with than with someone who I felt I was falling in love with. I hadn't considered that before now. So, if you're talking to me and I bring up the subject of being smeared in marmite while wearing a Velcro suit, I'm probably not falling in love with you. Sorry.
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# 5 : Saturday 23-5-2020 @ 22:08
 
 
(@Talorcan)
Yeah, it's quite an important part of gelling with someone I find. I met the last dud i had an interest due to common fetishes, and we ended up getting on really well on most levels, despite being very different people.

Someone said :
sorry but I lost interest after the first line.

ehh...fine why even bother reply?

Someone said :
You first

My main fetish is bald people who return to Gaire after being gone for a while.
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