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The Stalker’s Handbook
 
# 1 : Saturday 26-9-2020 @ 00:41
 
 
Would you make a good stalker?
How do you recognize a stalker?
Have you been stalked?
How do you know you are stalking or being stalked?
Have you been stalked?

I’d probably make a good stalker, due to my skill-set and manipulative/controlling tendencies coupled with my narcissism. But I just don’t care enough with people to be bothered!
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# 2 : Saturday 26-9-2020 @ 10:05
 
 
I wouldn't be a good stalker, not because I don't have the necessary skill-set but because I just couldn't be bothered, I don't find people interesting enough to develop an infatuation on one of them. As for have I been stalked? unfortunately yeah, multiple times mostly online, a lot of Trans people have developed infatuations with me in the past (which is the main reason why I completely avoid them all now) and a fair few "Admirers"(who are notoriously bad at accepting rejection in general) have become a little too obsessed in me at times, it's even happened on here once or twice.
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# 3 : Saturday 26-9-2020 @ 11:58
 
 
Something seriously wrong, with people who stalk and should be locked up in an asylum for life.
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# 4 : Saturday 26-9-2020 @ 13:14
 
 
Someone said :
Something seriously wrong, with people who stalk and should be locked up in an asylum for life.

People mistake infatuation/lust with love all the time and mostly they buy into the whole "Soul mate" shit too so 9 times out of 10 actually believe that you are "meant to be" so even if you reject them it doesn't register because as far as they are concerned they know better and you just haven't seen it yet but if they hound you relentlessly eventual you will. In short they believe that they are doing you a favour.
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# 5 : Saturday 26-9-2020 @ 19:34
 
 
Used to get regular calls around 3-4am on my landline, just silence then hang up.
Always hit the callback button and nothing until one they messed up and I got through - didn't ask who they were just told them I now have their number and will call the police if it continues - never happened again
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# 6 : Saturday 26-9-2020 @ 22:24
 
 
Someone said :
Used to get regular calls around 3-4am on my landline, just silence then hang up.
Always hit the callback button and nothing until one they messed up and I got through - didn't ask who they were just told them I now have their number and will call the police if it continues - never happened again

Maybe they were trying to return, your 4 cans of Draught Guinness?
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# 7 : Sunday 27-9-2020 @ 17:36
 
 
Someone said :

Maybe they were trying to return, your 4 cans of Draught Guinness?

I would never lose them nor wish a stalker upon you
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# 8 : Sunday 27-9-2020 @ 19:12
 
 
Someone said :

I would never lose them nor wish a stalker upon you

If I had a Stalker, I'd question their sanity and laugh my ass off.
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# 9 : Sunday 27-9-2020 @ 20:45
 
 
Someone said :
Used to get regular calls around 3-4am on my landline, just silence then hang up.
Always hit the callback button and nothing until one they messed up and I got through - didn't ask who they were just told them I now have their number and will call the police if it continues - never happened again

Did you ever find out why they were doing it? do you even have any idea who it was/might have been?
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# 10 : Sunday 27-9-2020 @ 20:59
 
 
I used to get calls years ago, they either said nothing or on occasion had children say things that children shouldn't say. One day i was in work and i got a call and the kids were telling me to F this and F that and i heard someone in the background calling a name, which i recognised as being a member who was on here at the time. They hung up pretty sharpish and never called again after i asked the kids to put their mother on the phone. Geebag
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# 11 : Sunday 27-9-2020 @ 21:15
 
 
Someone said :
I used to get calls years ago, they either said nothing or on occasion had children say things that children shouldn't say. One day i was in work and i got a call and the kids were telling me to F this and F that and i heard someone in the background calling a name, which i recognised as being a member who was on here at the time. They hung up pretty sharpish and never called again after i asked the kids to put their mother on the phone. Geebag

That's madness I play an online browser based crime game called Torn and on it you can be in factions and go to war with other factions or you can mug someone or even bounty them if they piss you off and then other people will attack them and put them in hospital for 8 hours at a time to claim the bounties and then they can do pretty much nothing in the game and if you have enough in game cash you can keep this up for months at a time and some people can take it really seriously, like there have been cases on it where one person has turned up at another persons door in real life and bet the shit out of them over it. People do be getting death threats and everything
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# 12 : Monday 28-9-2020 @ 09:21
 
 
Someone said :
I used to get calls years ago, they either said nothing or on occasion had children say things that children shouldn't say. One day i was in work and i got a call and the kids were telling me to F this and F that and i heard someone in the background calling a name, which i recognised as being a member who was on here at the time. They hung up pretty sharpish and never called again after i asked the kids to put their mother on the phone. Geebag

That's mad!
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# 13 : Monday 28-9-2020 @ 18:48
 
 
Someone said :

Did you ever find out why they were doing it? do you even have any idea who it was/might have been?

I felt that knowing might have made things worse - happy to let it go once it stopped plus they must have figured how bad it might get/look if they were outed as a stalker
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# 14 : Monday 28-9-2020 @ 23:18
 
 
Someone said :

I felt that knowing might have made things worse - happy to let it go once it stopped plus they must have figured how bad it might get/look if they were outed as a stalker

That may be 10 times more than went through their minds.
Trolls and stalkers are not as sophisticated as they’d like to think they are.
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