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Dating A Bi Guy
 
# 1 : Thursday 1-4-2021 @ 22:51
 
 
Hi all
Just wanted to know if any of the gay guys on this would be put off dating a bi guy and if so what issues would you have?
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# 2 : Thursday 1-4-2021 @ 22:58
 
 
Someone said :
Hi all
Just wanted to know if any of the gay guys on this would be put off dating a bi guy and if so what issues would you have?

It depends.
A bi-guy I do not mind.
A cheater I do.

I do not care if he is bi or gay or other:
- If he could be exclusive, happy days.
- If he'd expect an "open relationship", he would be put off dating me.
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# 3 : Thursday 1-4-2021 @ 23:08
 
 
Being 113 years old and hailing from Odder might be an issue too
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# 4 : Thursday 1-4-2021 @ 23:10
 
 
I jest, cheers for the feedback.
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# 5 : Thursday 1-4-2021 @ 23:36
 
 
There have been odder things said
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# 6 : Thursday 1-4-2021 @ 23:42
 
 
Someone said :
Hi all
Just wanted to know if any of the gay guys on this would be put off dating a bi guy and if so what issues would you have?

Have you had issues dating bi-guys?
Do you see a difference between:
A- a guy stuck with a woman and cheating with men;
B- versus a guy who wants an exclusive relationship with either a man or a woman;
C- versus a guy in a relationship with a man, but cheating casually with women;
D- versus a man going from casual relationship to another without being fixated on the gender spectrum of their partners?
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# 7 : Friday 2-4-2021 @ 10:48
 
 
Someone said :

It depends.
A bi-guy I do not mind.
A cheater I do.

I do not care if he is bi or gay or other:
- If he could be exclusive, happy days.
- If he'd expect an "open relationship", he would be put off dating me.

Are you by any chance inferring that bisexuals are more apt to be cheaters ?
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# 8 : Friday 2-4-2021 @ 11:41
 
 
Someone said :

Are you by any chance inferring that bisexuals are more apt to be cheaters ?

No.
I would have the same attitude if asked if I have a problem dating ginger people, or people with a lump, or fans of D&D.
With different combinations, maybe.

My only problem with dating anyone, if and when I were to get back on the market, would mostly be around them adhering to my brand of exclusivity in a relationship.
Of all problems with dating anyone, it is the most inclusive: it applies to all potential mates.
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# 9 : Friday 2-4-2021 @ 13:09
 
 
Someone said :

No.
I would have the same attitude if asked if I have a problem dating ginger people, or people with a lump, or fans of D&D.
With different combinations, maybe.

My only problem with dating anyone, if and when I were to get back on the market, would mostly be around them adhering to my brand of exclusivity in a relationship.
Of all problems with dating anyone, it is the most inclusive: it applies to all potential mates.

Absolute tosh !!

Your opening few comments tell a much different tale .

" a bi guy I do not mind "
" a cheater I do "

The OP asked a specific question.
Would gay guys here be put off dating another guy if he was bisexual.

You chose to lump in cheaters in your opening reply .
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# 10 : Friday 2-4-2021 @ 14:07
 
 
Someone said :

Absolute tosh !!

Your opening few comments tell a much different tale .

" a bi guy I do not mind "
" a cheater I do "

The OP asked a specific question.
Would gay guys here be put off dating another guy if he was bisexual.

You chose to lump in cheaters in your opening reply .

So you never meant "Are you by any chance inferring..."?
You should have led with "Absolute tosh".

But again, you cannot be blamed for misreading.
Did you be any chance not take into account my follow-up post where I asked him if he had had issues dating bi-guys?
I listed 4 scenarios (there are others).

He asked about bi-people.
I answered in the context of bi-people.
If he'd asked about Innuits, I would have said that I would mind a cheating Innuit. I'd surely mind a cheating Innuit.

Maybe we can let him be offended on his own behalf, and maybe he can share with us if he has experienced people having a problem dating him in relation to his bi-sexuality. If he wants to.

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# 11 : Friday 2-4-2021 @ 18:53
 
 
As long as he didn't turn up stinking of tuna
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# 12 : Friday 2-4-2021 @ 19:22
 
 
Someone said :
As long as he didn't turn up stinking of tuna

That's pretty much why I broke up with Atiqtalaaq.
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# 13 : Friday 2-4-2021 @ 19:22
 
 
Someone said :
As long as he didn't turn up stinking of tuna

That's pretty much why I broke up with Atiqtalaaq.
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