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Which Is The Longest You Abstained? (By Ideology, Choice, Or Circumstances)
 
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# 1 : Thursday 29-4-2021 @ 16:55
 
 
What is the longest period of time, after becoming sexually active, that you have refrained, abstained, or been kept away from having sex?

For me it was an ethical choice when I separated:
- It takes 2 years for a separation to be legal enough to justify a dissolution.
- It then took a couple of months of dating before finding a descent mate.
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# 2 : Thursday 29-4-2021 @ 18:38
 
 
Define sexually active? Do you mean penetrative sex or would an oul' smooch & a bit of oral count.?
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# 3 : Thursday 29-4-2021 @ 18:40
 
 
Haven't had sex in more than 5 years and don't miss it.
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# 4 : Thursday 29-4-2021 @ 19:33
 
 
6 years between the time I transitioned and when I met my ex and now, since we broke up, its been almost 3 years and all of it was no type of sexual activity, not even kissing someone
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# 5 : Thursday 29-4-2021 @ 20:06
 
 
Someone said :
Define sexually active? Do you mean penetrative sex or would an oul' smooch & a bit of oral count.?

Whatever your definition is, is your definition.
This is not a survey by the national institute of accurate statistics

Some people's sexuality is made of kisses and cuddles that arouse them, or sensations that make them tingle. Some will only count penetrative sex with a climax.
Some will only be interested in porn-fed onanism, but most will define sexually active as involving a partner.

Whatever you call it is what you have been abstain-ing/-ed from.
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# 6 : Thursday 29-4-2021 @ 20:08
 
 
Alright, we'll go with the smoochin' & Oral then, about 4 years. Don't miss it either.
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# 7 : Thursday 29-4-2021 @ 20:47
 
 
Someone said :
What is the longest period of time, after becoming sexually active, that you have refrained, abstained, or been kept away from having sex?

For me it was an ethical choice when I separated:
- It takes 2 years for a separation to be legal enough to justify a dissolution.
- It then took a couple of months of dating before finding a descent mate.

Quick question ?
" kept away from having sex "?
Is that the same as being " forced from having sex "?
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# 8 : Thursday 29-4-2021 @ 21:20
 
 
Someone said :

Quick question ?
" kept away from having sex "?
Is that the same as being " forced from having sex "?

Not sure what you mean.
It means abstinence not by choice.
It does not mean "prevented by force".
It could be that the wife gives the cold shoulder, or that people of interest are not interested, or that your mating partner is grandes in New Zealand...
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# 9 : Thursday 29-4-2021 @ 21:21
 
 
Someone said :

Whatever your definition is, is your definition.
This is not a survey by the national institute of accurate statistics

Some people's sexuality is made of kisses and cuddles that arouse them, or sensations that make them tingle. Some will only count penetrative sex with a climax.
Some will only be interested in porn-fed onanism, but most will define sexually active as involving a partner.

Whatever you call it is what you have been abstain-ing/-ed from.

How long, since you shagged something?
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# 10 : Thursday 29-4-2021 @ 21:41
 
 
Someone said :

How long, since you shagged something?

That's a different question.
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# 11 : Thursday 29-4-2021 @ 21:41
 
 
Someone said :

How long, since you shagged something?

That's a different question.
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# 12 : Thursday 29-4-2021 @ 21:41
 
 
Someone said :

How long, since you shagged something?

That's a different question.
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# 13 : Thursday 29-4-2021 @ 21:43
 
 
20 Years give or take.. T'was that long ago I've lost count..
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# 14 : Thursday 29-4-2021 @ 22:11
 
 
Less than a month.
If I wasn't with a girlfriend, there was always one night stands.
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# 15 : Thursday 29-4-2021 @ 22:28
 
 
My last bf tried to kill himself when I broke up with him like 5 years ago so I've had major trust issues since then, I'm happy just loving myself though to be honest
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