Someone said :
My last bf tried to kill himself when I broke up with him like 5 years ago so I've had major trust issues since then, I'm happy just loving myself though to be honest
Yeah I'm the same, my last relationship seriously put me off being with anyone else although to be honest looking on here sometimes kind of emphasises how slim the pickings really are out there. I kind of feel like a switch went of in my head at some point, not sure when exactly, and now when I look at someone I can see how they might be considered aesthetically attractive by others (I'm not blind like) but in my head all I am thinking when I look at them is "Yeah and exactly how much fucking baggage do you come with?". The simple fact, for me now anyway, is sex is too little a reward for such a costly investment, I just wish I had have realised that sooner.