Some seriously interesting points made in this thread...this is a clear example of threads within a thread...something about this is going to touch a nerve in almost everyone who reads it..I'm going to have to say that I do think Sligo Steve showed disrespect to a lot of groups in his postings, and I'm not familiar with Gaydar so thanks for explaining, if there is a system in place that shows content of profiles, if one is unwilling to view flesh then a choice is available...if someone genuinely isnt interested in naked pictures, why bother looking...and why have a profile up on Gaydar if you dont want to be contacted? I dont feel that Sligo Steve did himself any favours whatsoever in his initial posts, he came across as negative, critical and shallow. Whether or not this is the case, I dont presume to know but Dirha did make some valid points in his postings and indeed he wasnt the only one. A line was picked out and twisted somewhat..people are single because they either choose to be or they deserve it..i
This is a very bald statement and typical Dirha, no frills, no flounces just a hard hitting statement. For the most part, I agree with him...a lot of single people would tell you that they're just getting out of relationships, that they're having fun, that they dont want to commit right now, that they havent met anyone they're bothered with, that they've been let down before and now they're wary...all these are people who choose to be single..then there's those incapable of sustaining a relationship through faults of their own..cheats, liars, people who are violent..reputations get around and some people are given a wide berth..and with just cause..so, they deserve it..no point in splitting hairs on this one!!